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【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害

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hodeoo 发表于 2021-3-26 01:01:43 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害


很多人陷入色青往往是为了好奇、刺激、意淫、追求性满足等等。表面上看,短期是没有设么大事,但是长期来看,色青就是一个大坑。

不论色青刚开始能带来什么快感,随之而来的一定是痛苦。邪淫之人追寻那种转瞬即逝的(犹如鬼魂)的快感,殊不知这往往会转化为沮丧感,同时影响大脑,不得不继续邪淫。最可怕的就是,随着时间推移,邪淫之人会和朋友、家人乃至社会之间越来越远。

接下来的是四种色青不良影响。

【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害


1. 色青会导致并加重沮丧感

性瘾会让大脑暂时充斥多巴胺(一种大脑分泌的神经传导物,与人的情yu等多种感觉以及上瘾行为有关,),从而让你暂时逃避你不想面对的感觉,比如悲伤、恐惧、愤怒或者无聊。可以说是一个逃避现实生活的港湾,但是实际上,会毁了你的一切。

随着多巴胺过度释放,多巴胺的效用会降低。这就导致你不得不花更多时间来寻找更加变态的黄源。殊不知,色青就是会让你暂时忘记痛苦的感觉(悲伤、恐惧、寂寞、愤怒、无聊),这种习惯会迅速导致过后的沮丧感,抑郁感(多巴胺分泌减少导致),同时反过来沮丧感会让你用色青继续逃避(恶性循环)。之所以人们会陷进去,就是因为很多人忽视了色青和随之而来的沮丧感是极具破坏力的一套连招。

真相就是色青只是快乐的一个可悲的替代品,并不会改善任何关系,只会扭曲现实以及种种人脉关系。

【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害


2. 色青会导致并加重焦虑

色青导致心里上的伤害是真实存在的,的确会让人脱离现实。很多人选择色青是为了掩盖他们对于生活、自己、以及种种关系的感知。把自己或者友伴yiyin成色青电影中的人是有危害的,导致你迷失自己,忽略你爱的另一半。研究表明很多女人去整形,男生去男科医院的原因正是社会上色青泛滥导致的恶果。

除了让你和现实越来越远,色青向你传递一种加工过的性行为方式。实际上色青影片中都是虚假夸张的。尽管这样,很多邪淫的人还趋之若鹜,到最后迷失在真实的关系上。

【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害


3. 色青会毁了你以后的xing福生活

其讽刺的是,色青会导致婚后的xing福生活一团糟。很多人沉浸的原因往往是色青展示的是一个虚构的没有停息的世界。当之后很多人步入婚姻殿堂时,由于受到过多色青的毒害,往往身体废了,不能进行正常的xing福生活。

(国外新的疾病叫法)色青引起的boqi障碍。曾经,boqi障碍往往是中年人才会得的,现在随着网络色青的兴起,这种病已经蔓延到看片的年轻人身上,但是我们这些年轻人不同(要有自信),比如“重启王国”的加布蒂姆,亦或是我们网站上的那些开诚布公的斗士们。

【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害


图片意思:加布蒂姆:“我本来认为色青是刺激xing行为的,实际上完全相反,再没有任何比色青能毁掉xing福生活的了。”


真相就是色青不仅仅会让你健康废掉,会让你失去走进另一半的机会(社会恐惧症状),更会让你懦弱到连和社会接触的胆量都没有。真实的xing福生活是不可能跟色青共存的,越是沉浸在色青中,潜在的问题就会越大。这也是色青让你远离真实生活的一直方式。

4. 色青会导致严重后果以及无止境的羞耻。

社会媒体等的宣传往往是对于色青人们往往是偷偷摸摸的。不论电影电视中描写的都是那些邪淫的人要么把色青杂志藏在垫子下面,要么打开电脑邪淫前把们锁住。

我们从世界上很多luguan的人消息中得知,他们觉得自己就像是废人,正是因为邪淫的恶习觉得自己毫无价值。一旦你能够抹去虚假,改变摄影镜头,以及后期编辑,你会发现色青真的很肮脏,根本不会跟你任何愉悦和优越感。

看完片之后一定会有一直挥之不去的感觉:感觉内心窘迫,讨厌自我,感觉自己毫无价值。更糟糕的是这种羞耻感犹如温床,会滋生更多的问题,比如社恐(社会孤立、隔绝),导致你进一步远离健康的生活方式和现实生活。

更可怕的是,有很多人把邪淫之人当成敌人,这就导致了更可怕的羞耻感,极度自卑,抑郁。

爱和理解是重新建立联系的钥匙
在色青上的任何花费都是不值的。那种让你远离现实生活的破坏力不是闹着玩的,它会腐蚀你的内心,影响你的人脉关系的质量,孤立你,(让你进入恶性循环,觉得孤独,然后看片,继续沉沦,越发孤独,陷入泥潭)

值得庆幸的是,真实的爱和关系的力量是巨大的,不论受色青影响多深,都可以拯救你。让色青滚蛋,奔着真实的生活出发把。为了朋友,为了真爱,你的身心也一定会好起来。

【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害


图片意思:脱离虚幻,回归真实,(网站和新的毒品作斗争,色青毁了爱)

People turn to porn for many reasons—curiosity, thrill, psycholagny, chasing a high, or sexual gratification. On the surface, these may seem harmless, but over the long haul, porn can turn into a huge trap.
Whatever fleeting good feelings consuming porn might initially bring, they’re slowly replaced over time by their opposites. The consumer is left chasing ghosts of those first thrills. That first thrill can turn to frustration as porn fails the brain and acclimates to constant consuming. Perhaps worst of all is the way that porn, over time, can leave its consumers increasingly disconnected from friends, family and the world around them.
Here are four ways porn creates a disconnection.

1. Porn can lead to and fuel existing depression
Pornography, along with other addictions, floods the brain with dopamine and can provide a temporary escape from feelings you’d rather not face, like sadness, fear, anger or boredom. It can serve as a momentary haven away from real life problems, but in turn, it can worsen those problems over time.
As more dopamine is released over time, the consumer feels the effects of the dopamine less and less. This diminishing return can often lead to more time spent searching for more hardcore images. However, pornography and other “highs” are used to make the consumer (temporarily) forget about feelings of sadness, fear, loneliness, anger, or boredom. This habit can quickly lead to depression and is also something depression can lead to. Which one happens because of the other isn’t as important as knowing that porn and depression are a destructive combo.
The truth is, porn is a poor substitute for happiness. It presents a fake model of relationships that distort reality and the type of connections we need and are hard-wired for as humans.

2. Porn can lead to and fuel existing anxiety
The toll pornography takes on mental health is real, and it can seriously disconnect consumers from reality. Many turn to porn to cover up the way they feel about their lives, themselves, and relationships. Comparing yourself—and your partner—to the performers in porn can prove to be damaging, causing you to think less of yourself and the person you love. Research shows that the increase of pornography in society is a cause for an increasing number of women seeking plastic surgery to change their bodies, and the increase in young men seeking male enhancement prescriptions.
Driving the wedge between you and reality further, porn also presents a manufactured idea of what sex is supposed to be like. But the fact is, it’s impossible to measure up to airbrushed fantasy and overly exaggerated acting. But even so, consumers can often become obsessed with chasing something that isn’t real that they miss out on actual relationships and building real, authentic connections.
3. Porn can basically render your sex life totally sexless

Porn can lead to bad sex. Ironic, right? Consumers turn to porn because it turns them on and shows them a fantasy world of nonstop sex. Then, when consumers are actually with someone, after being exposed to so much unrealistic sexual explicit content, their can body shut down—they can’t perform.
Welcome to porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED). Once upon a time, erectile dysfunction was something pretty much only middle-aged dudes got. Now, with the rise of internet porn, it’s the territory of binge-watching young guys. But don’t take our word for it, check out people like Gabe Deem of Reboot Nation or our Fighters who are opening up about their experiences with it.
The reality is, porn can inhibit consumers from not only being healthy, but also from feeling socially able to connect to a potential partner, and cause them to shy away from real-life connections altogether, at times. Real sex becomes not as exciting as the pornography, and soon the consumer is potentially dealing with serious sexual problems. This is just another way porn disconnects consumers from reality.

4. Porn can cause crippling and endless shame
If social media or is any indicator, generally, people don’t feel very good or proud about their porn. You know the common movie or TV show scene, depicting porn consumers hiding their porn magazines under their mattresses or locking their doors as they power up their laptops.
We get messages all over the world from porn consumers who have expressed that they’ve felt like a bad person with no value because of their habits. Maybe that’s because, once you strip away the makeup, the camera angles, and the editing, porn doesn’t really make you feel very excellent about yourself and life.
It’s a feeling that sticks with you after the video ends—the embarrassment, the self-loathing, the feelings of worthlessness linger. And to make matters worse, it turns out that self-inflicted shame is a breeding ground for more issues like social isolation, separating consumers further from a healthy lifestyle and reality.
As if that’s not enough, there are those who add to that shame by treating people addicted to porn as the enemies. This kind of shaming can result in crippling self-esteem and outright depression.

Love and Understanding Are the Keys to Reconnecting
Bottom line—porn is never worth it. The power porn has to disconnect consumers from reality isn’t something to joke about. It can erode who you are, and harm the quality of your personal connections, leaving you isolated, disconnected and craving more.
Thankfully, the power of real love and real relationships can overpower any hold porn can have on someone’s life. Ditch the porn and aim for real friendships, real love. Your mind and your body will be glad you did.

译者:tranquilwill

【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害

【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害
”【国外经验】老外谈戒色危害


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